Discovery: The notion of having "no regrets" is a very good and honorable mantra and motto. It causes us to take risks, step out of our comfort zones, and not dwell on things of the past. In a biblical context, this idea of a "regret-free" life is clearly found within the context of relationships. There should be no regret in regards to our relationship with God (Luke 9:62: "Jesus replied, 'No one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for service in the kingdom of God.'") nor should there be any regrets in loving others.
Paul, in speaking about his relationship with the Corinthian church, shares openly about the struggles and challenges that he faces in ministry. Paul readily admits that sorrow and difficulties are a reality of life for any believer. However, in v. 10 Paul makes the distinction between godly sorrow and earthy sorrow: "Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow bring death."
The obvious difference is that godly sorrow has God's fingerprints all over it. Paul states in v. 9 "...For you became sorrowful as God intended..." In the NASB translation, it says, "...made sorrowful according to the will of God." God will often allow sorrow to come our way because He desires to accomplish something through it.
Application: No one likes sorrow. Most of us try everything to avoid it at all costs. The subtle lie of the Enemy is this: "Don't allow yourself to get hurt or disappointed by anyone. Protect yourself because no one else will."
This is extremely effective and we see the results of this all around us. People avoid getting involved in church, ministry, friendships, and community because it is always safer to keep these things at an arms distance. Sorrow and disappoint are inevitable in any of these endeavors and we can avoid it by simply standing on the sidelines.
But Paul tells us in this passage that we will miss out on the joys of relationships and community if we live like this. Paul points to his relationship with Titus and the great encouragement that he gained from him. Paul points to the even greater joy and encouragement that he received when Titus told him about the prayers and concerns of the Corinthian church for him. Though discouragement, regret, remorse, challenges and difficulties are real in ministry and relationships, Paul points to the encouragement, friendships, support that he receives from his the Corinthian church and Titus as far better.
Dear friends, don't let your fears, doubts, worries, and concerns rob you of the joy that is found in faithfully pouring out your heart in service, ministry, and community.
Prayer: Lord, let me live with no regrets in loving You and loving others this week. Especially as I prepare for our Navajo mission trip next week, empower me to give my whole heart to the people that I will be meeting with no constraints.
